What effect did Covid-19 have on the number of weddings that took place in Ireland last year compared with 2019? As you can imagine, a very big effect. In fact, the number halved, but the reduction in the number of Catholic weddings was bigger than in the number of civil weddings. Why might that have been?
There were 9,209 opposite-sex marriages in Ireland in 2020, about half the number for 2019 (19,673) and 2018 (20,389), according to the recently released figures from the CSO. Same-sex marriages also halved from 640 in 2019 to 314 in 2020.
The 2020 opposite-sex marriage rate for 1,000 population was a mere 1.9. This was 4.7 in 2015 and 4.0 in 2019. The rate has been constantly declining since the 1980s, particularly so in recent years, and it has now reached approximately the same level as in the UK.
While a general drop in the number of weddings was easily predictable, fact that the number of civil weddings surpassed Catholic weddings for the first time certainly stood out.
While religious marriages over were still slightly more frequent (50.2pc) than non-religious ones (49.8pc), civil ceremonies (3,779) were more popular than Catholic weddings (3,295).
The reason for this seems quite simple: of all weddings, civil ones are the least likely to be postponed. A closer look at the statistics will prove my point.
When we compare the distribution of marriages through the year, we see a sharp decline in April, May and June 2020, and another decline in November. December, instead of the traditional August, was the month with most weddings in 2020.
Many marriages were postponed last year but, if we look at the statistics, it is clear that civil marriages were postponed less than other marriages. For instance, compared to the previous year, civil marriages saw a 43pc decline, while all marriages went down 53pc and Catholic marriages dropped 63pc. This is not because Ireland has suddenly become far less Catholic but because the couples who marry in a church are more likely to want a big day, while civil ceremonies in a registry office are likely to be smaller affairs.
If we look at non-religious ceremonies, civil weddings went up from 31.6pc in 2019 to 42.1pc in 2020 while Humanist ceremonies went down from 9.4pc to 7.8 pc. The explanation is the same as above: civil marriages are the least likely to be postponed.
Spiritualist marriages also went down from 8pc of the total in 2019, to 6.7pc last year. These often take place in hotels and involve couples who don’t marry in a church but want a religious element to their wedding.
There is another important factor to consider.
First marriages went down 55.4pc in 2020, compared to the previous year. But marriages involving least one person divorced person went down by ‘only’ 41.8pc. This shows that those who are marrying for the first time were more likely to postpone their big day compared to those who were remarrying. And given that Catholic marriages generally do not involve someone who is divorced, this factor also contributed to the temporary decline of Catholic ceremonies in 2020.
In 2020 marriages were postponed for very practical reasons and, the more complex the ceremony, the more likely this happened.
This is not to say religious marriages are not declining in number anyway overall, but last year was exceptional for the reasons given above.