The number of women divorcing their husbands has dropped to its lowest level in a generation, new figures reveal. There were a total of 62,712 women who filed for divorce in the UK in 2017, compared with 118,401 in 1993. The number of divorces initiated by husbands fell by 15% to 38,957 over the same period, according to Office for National Statistics figures.
Overall divorce rates in Britain are at their lowest since 1973, some four years after the present law was introduced. The UK has a fault-based divorce system so that, unless a spouse can prove their marriage has broken down due to adultery, unreasonable behaviour or desertion, the only way to obtain a divorce without a spouse’s consent is to live apart for five years.
Joanne Edwards, head of family at Forsters, a London law firm, has analysed the grounds cited for divorce. She has found a “sea change in the sharing of childcare responsibilities within the home and fathers who are ever more hands-on” and this has reduced what had been a common complaint of wives, who in the past sought a divorce on the grounds of bad behaviour.
Sir Paul Coleridge, a former High Court judge and founder of the Marriage Foundation, said it was time to challenge the stereotype of men behaving badly. “When I was engaged in the justice system, wives were almost always the initiators of divorce,” he said. “That is becoming less and less true year by year. Why? The only sensible explanation is that men are behaving better and more responsibly when it comes to marriage.”